6. The super empath chooses to say nothing.
Arguments fuel the need of a narcissist to be heated at all times. When a super empath chooses to say nothing, the narcissist is caught off guard. For someone who loves a loud and messy argument, finding their partner unwilling to participate disarms them.
By staying quiet, the empath denies the narcissist opportunities to break them, insult them, or assert their authority. When the empath refused to be sucked into the vortex, the narcissist does not have the victim to terrorize anymore.
7. The super empath breaks down oppressive structures.
In a relationship that has been going on for a while has its established routines and habits. A relationship between a narcissist and an empath would have oppressive structures as well. It can be as mundane as the empaths settling for a narcissist’s choice of restaurant to dine out at every time. It can be as symbolic as the empath not having a decisive voice in the household.
The narcissist’s power increases as these oppressive structures become stronger with repetition and time. But, when the super empath insists on the new cafe down the street and becomes vocal in making critical decisions, the narcissist will take a step back and know their hold is slipping.
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8. The super empath stops feeding the narcissist.
A true narcissist feeds on people. They feed on their attention, their admiration, and their gratitude. They suck validation like vampires until they are almost bursting. A super empath knows what keeps a narcissist full to the brim. After all, they are the ones that provide most of the affirmation.
A super empath who finally sees the narcissist’s true nature won’t leave the relationship immediately. But, once they have regained self-confidence and build up their reserves, they will stop feeding the narcissists the kind of food that fuels their arrogance and sense of entitlement. The narcissist is being destroyed slowly but surely.
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