5 Reasons Why You Attract Toxic People


 1. You avoid confrontation.

You hate conflict. Right or wrong, you don’t care as long as the argument ends. You’ll say sorry not because you’re the one at fault, but because you just want the fight to be over. Well, that’s something that toxic people absolutely love. They want someone they can push over, someone that they can wrong and then manipulate into not standing up for themselves. It makes them feel like they’re in the right and you’re the one to blame for the fight even though they started it.

 For you, it might seem like a small deal, it’s just an argument. So what if you had to say sorry? What matters is that your compromise help keep your friend happy and your friendship or relationship intact. Relationships are built on trust. Both of you are responsible for what happens. If it’s always you that ends up having to take the blame every time something bad happens, then it’s probably time for you to leave.

 Toxic people will do anything they can to gaslight you into thinking that you’re the one who’s wrong. Every fight and argument will end up with you thinking that you’re the one who’s wrong. This isn’t because you’re wrong. No one is wrong all the time and you feeling guilty all the time is not right. Toxic people gaslight you and manipulate you into thinking that. Stand up when you feel you’re right and speak up for yourself.

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