Number 1: Researching whether they are a narcissist or a toxic person.
The number one clue that your partner – or anyone really – is narcissistic to a point of being toxic to you is that you are researching whether they are a narcissist or a toxic person. That’s your intuition telling you something is off, so if it feels off, it probably is.
Number 2: You find yourself justifying and excusing things that you know are not okay.
Because the person is so great in other ways and they make you feel really good and really special at times. If this is your situation, then take a step back and consult with an objective third party… someone you trust, so you can get a more accurate picture of what’s going on. And if the people you trust are warning you about your partner, LISTEN… they are the sober ones. You have already been drugged by the narcissist. So, if you find yourself justifying and defending your partner to people you have trusted for years, that’s a bad sign!
Number 3: When you try to talk about your concerns, they will love you and s.e.x bomb you to avoid the discussion.
The third thing to indicate that their level of narcissism is toxic is that when you try to talk about your concerns, they will love and sex bomb you to avoid discussions of any type of problems – that’s especially early in their relationship… Later on, the narcissist will use more aggressive techniques to shut you down such as gaslighting, deflecting, and intimidation. But regardless of what stage you’re at in the relationship, you do not feel safe bringing up any type of concern or complaint.
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