Number 5: Make lots of money.
Now, last but not least, if you want to torture a narcissist, make lots of money, make money, lots of it ethically, and morally in a way that serves the highest good for all concerned and brings massive value to your community and the marketplace in a way that changes lives for the better, yours included. Few things will torture a narcissist more than not only knowing you’ve moved on and healed for real, grown into your best self, and living your best life, but also you figured out how to generate incredible freedom, safety, security, and comfort for yourself. You’re well-healed and well-resourced, you’re living an affluent and abundant life and you ain’t never looking back.
Not only will the narcissist burn with jealousy, but you’ll have choices, opportunity, freedom, and all kinds of fun, growth, and empowerment at your fingertips. And before anyone starts dropping nasty and negative comments because I used the M word out loud, lean in, let’s have a little chat. If you still have fear, shame, guilt, or any discomfort over the concept of making lots of money in service of the highest good for all concerned, yourself included, you have work to do around money and probably some other self-worth issues to deal with as well.
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Here’s what’s true, you will never get poor enough to make a positive difference in your own life, never mind anyone else’s. Money is neither good nor bad, it’s neutral. It’s a tool, a resource; it’s an energetic currency that can be used in the service of good or bad. And what I know for sure is we need more goodhearted people who are well-resourced enough to not only create freedom, sovereignty, bliss, and joy for themselves, but also for the world at large. We need more goodhearted, well-intended people who are abundant enough, and free enough to get out into the world and make a difference in ways that actually matter.
You can’t do that if you’re broke, and the truth is, like it or not, we get paid in direct proportion to the amount of value that we bring to the marketplace. So figure out how to bring more value to the marketplace and while you’re at it, how to do so in a way that makes a positive difference in the lives of others. Want to torture the narcissist from a distance, of course, heal your money shit and make lots of money. Heal and change your own life so much so that you can go out and create a massive positive impact in the ways that only you can, it’s time now.
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