1. Shift Your Mindset.
It begins with you and your mindset. Now, what I mean by this is, it’s important that you surrender to, and accept the reality that narcissists do not change. What’s going on with the narcissist gets worse, not better over time. And left untreated, what’s going on with you will continue to get worse, not better over time too. So how much more do you want to take? How much more do you want your emotional, mental, physical, and spiritual, as well as your financial wellbeing to deteriorate?
The best predictor of future behavior is past behavior. So tell yourself the truth of your experience with this person or this group of people, no matter how difficult or painful, and no matter how much you wish it may be different. Decide to love yourself enough to surrender to the truth, and the reality of what is as opposed to what you wish was. You’ll be much better off, I promise.
2. Be Smart & Prepare In Advance.
Taking care of yourself is your responsibility. No one else’s. So do what you need to do to ensure that you’re covered. Speak to lawyers, put money aside, plan ahead, and document everything. You may never need it, but if the day ever comes that you do, you’ll sure be glad that you have it.
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