3. When you finally move on, the narcissist will always find a way to pop up in your life again.
The narcissist will always find a way to remind you that they’re still there because they don’t want you to forget about them. They don’t want you to move on and live your life without; they’re jealous and insecure and they don’t want you to be good for anyone else after they’re gone. The way they see it is: If you’re not going to stay with them, you might as well be dead.
Narcissists just can’t stand the thought of someone else partaking in everything that you are because, in their minds, you belong to them. In their minds, you’re their property. Regardless of what you want to do or how you’re feeling, it’s all about what they want, and they will do whatever it takes to keep you around.
A Book: Disarming the Narcissist: Surviving and Thriving with the Self-Absorbed- by Wendy Behary.
They will hold on to your possessions, they will try to take custody of your children, and they will place financial hugs into you, whatever it takes to keep you tied to them, to remain a part of your life, they’re not just going to let you go without a fight because, in their minds, you belong to them. They feel entitled to you and everything that you have, and they can spend years keeping tabs on you, to the point where they become more focused on your life than they are in their own lives.
They just become fixated on you, they’re always watching, and they can’t let things go. It just develops into this crazed obsession, and if they know that they can’t secure you by being nice, they will cause problems for you, they will disrupt everything you’ve got going on in your life.
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