7. You do not prioritize each other.
There’s a lot of dating coaches out there that will say, just play hard to get. Don’t give them all that attention and that’s how you make your relationship last. And yes, we kind of feel this true. But what you need to understand here is if you do not prioritize your partner, they are going to think that this person does not care for me. I am a goner.
Now, it could be that you are so busy and your partner’s busy at the start of a relationship, and that’s fine. We have a career, we have a life to live, but if you cannot prioritize each other regularly for dinner dates, for calls, and really making an effort, it is not going to work down the line.
A great example would be two busy people who are focused on career goals that seem to just meet in the middle one day a weekend. No calls throughout the rest of the week. It might sound okay at the start of a relationship, but if you don’t prioritize anything more, the relationship will always be like that and it would just never work out.
8. They treat others poorly.
You will notice this from the very start of how they say thank you to people opening the door, or how do they react when someone doesn’t open the door for them and doesn’t wait for them. How do they react when someone gets a wrong order at the McDonald’s drive-through, or at a restaurant, or even how they treat their friends and their peers.
When you get a good judge of character at the start of a relationship, you can think that this is the time for me to stick with them or go. Because like we said, just earlier before that at the start of a relationship you were always on your best behavior.
And if you notice people treating others poorly at the very early signs of a relationship, then just think that might just be them on their best behavior.
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