Number 5: Long-term physical abuse.
Suppose you live under the same roof with narcissists, in that case, these narcissists will most likely abuse you physically since they are impulsive and have anger management issues. They will physically harm you if they get jealous of others who try to get close or flirt with you, even if you did not entertain them. Also, they can be aggressive toward you if you do not submit to their demands.
If you are in a romantic relationship with them, you can be a battered girlfriend, boyfriend, wife, or husband. Physical abuse does not only affect you externally, it can also significantly impact your inner being. It will eventually take a toll on your mental health because you can suffer from mental illnesses, including anxiety, depression, and obsessive-compulsive disorder.
As early as now, you must save yourself from your abusers because they might not be able to control their anger toward you and commit the worst crime. Do not tolerate physical abuse within the relationship. Consider it one of the grandest red flags you need to tick on your list. Do not get entangled with the trauma bond that narcissists try to establish with you.
Recommended: Healing from Hidden Abuse: A Journey Through the Stages of Recovery from Psychological Abuse.
Number 6: Betrayal.
Narcissists are natural Traders. After they gain your trust and sympathy through their fancy words, superficial charm, and Charisma, they will betray you. When narcissists already get what they want from you, they can dump you anytime. When you enter into a romantic relationship with a narcissist, you can’t expect loyalty from this person. Since narcissists are never content with your effort, they will eventually cheat on you through a love affair. They do this because they do not want to run out of narcissistic Supply.
The moment you initiate a breakup with them, their betrayal manifests through quickly trading off into new relationships. The worst part is, if they want to show off their newfound lovers for the entire world to see, especially you, they want you to witness how they are happy without you. Narcissistic Partners do this to save face because you damaged their inflated egos when you broke up with them. That is why they set out their revenge on you by making you jealous of their newfound relationships.
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