And when I think about my other values, the things that I incorporate into my day-to-day life, it’s the belief system that I have, those types of things. And all these are extremely important. Now, is it wrong when somebody doesn’t have the same belief system? No, but does it make it easier in life when we have the same belief system to be able to live in a relationship that’s not only positive but it’s kind of smooth sailing and I’m not just saying that smooth sailing is always the best but it is definitely better than a lot of drama.
5. Figuring Out Who We are Before You Start Looking For Someone Else.
Usually, when we end a toxic relationship, we try to find someone that might have similarities to us, but first, we have to figure out who we are before we go find that other person. So step one, figuring out your values, and write them down. What are my seven to ten core values that are very important to me? What do they matter to me and how do I define them? Well, just like I went through the independence of thought, action, and feelings.
Look at that in your own life. Write that down. And in this article, I have talked more about understanding how to create the boundaries, and I have gone really in-depth on that because once we have the values, now we’re able to understand our boundaries. We’re able to actually implement real boundaries because a lot of times people talk about boundaries, but what do boundaries mean?
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